Selena Gomez 'People Mistake Niceness For Naiveness.. I Shouldn't Be As Naive..'

Selena Gomez dished to BOP! about how she's changed in the past few years. On Kiss & Tell: 'I want my fans to know me a little better after they hear this record. It's what I've gone through with heartache, friendships and things like that.' On new friends:
'When it comes to meeting new friends, I think I shouldn't be as naive and open. People mistake niceness for naiveness in a way because they think, 'Oh she's nice, we can mess with her.'' Sel still remains and optimist: 'I like to dream but I also like to be realistic. I don't want to be let down!'
Categories: Selena Gomez

BIG HEAD SELENA IS A WHORE!
FIRST! Love Sel <3
You are the whore your big ass
I wonder when that picture is from? Recently, right? Isn't that J's friend Chaz that he just flew out to L.A.?
Stop making up lies. Selena is gorgeous and talented. I love her. :)
Oh sure shes not the best singer but Miley Cyrus isn't the best singer?
People have opinions. Keep the mean ones to yourself.
Like Miley says, if you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say it at all!
REFERENCE TO DEMI!!!
Not trying to hate on her,
but I get the feeling that Selena thinks she is 'bigger' then she really is,
Like I feel like she thinks she is some big star and she isn't.
Not saying she isn't humble, she could be, just saying I think she gives herself a little more credit then she actually has.
Alot of teenagers my age and older don't even know who she is.
SG?
No relation to DG.
Naiveness isn't a word, but okay. Haha.
So true, my parents think I'm naiive because I believe people can be nice. But they think, I think everyone is nice! But why is oceanup calling Selena SG. Serisouly, I like Sel way better.
Fifth!!!!!! Hey quit calling eachother whores lol. Actually never mind I don't want anyone get pissed off... Just ignore me hahaha
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
SELENA HAS A BIG HEAD!
always is miley vs selena omg just leave alone miley pleaseeeee!!!!
this post is about selena ok sooo
i dont like selena but you know she is good sooo shut up ....thaks
OceanUp changed 'SG' to 'Selena Gomez'.
Now my comment makes me look like a douche.
-_-
nick j's number.
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true!
hope your not one of those weird people who actually look up to miley
shes friends with justin beiber i heard he had a huge crush in her.
Selena Gomez is cool even though I am not a fan of her
http://oceanup.com/2009/11/06/sel-people-mistake-niceness-for-naiveness
In the URL, it says "Sel."
"SG"
"Selly"
Haha, How many nicknames do you have for Selena?
don't be afraid to open yourself to people Selena. you're too great a person to not share yourself with others.
really? How did you get it?
damn, compared to them ... her head is HUGE
damn, compared to them ... her head is HUGE
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So is mine, got a problem with it?
don't be afraid to open yourself to people Selena. you're too great a person to not share yourself with others
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nah, they just get creeped out and dump her.
Sel
Selly
SG
Lena
there are a couple...
SUSTIN!
damn, compared to them ... her head is HUGE
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So is mine, got a problem with it?
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Oh, well then ... you and selena are big headed bitches. done :)
love justin and selena.
kinda looks like she was photoshopped into the picture....is that real???
her head is HUGE
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her head is not huge okay ?!
justins head is really small
did you see "One Less Lonley Girl" ?
the scene where he dances close with the girl
her head looks huge too
yeah it LOOKS like but it is NOT like that
I feel sorry for your mom and selenas mom hahaha
that pic is F-A-K-E
fucking balloon headed bitch
SUSTIN!
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shut up
he looks like 12
something wrong with that picture looks fake
What? said:
Not trying to hate on her,
but I get the feeling that Selena thinks she is 'bigger' then she really is,
Like I feel like she thinks she is some big star and she isn't.
Not saying she isn't humble, she could be, just saying I think she gives herself a little more credit then she actually has.
Alot of teenagers my age and older don't even know who she is
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guess you didnt read selenas interview in seventeen magazine. selena isnt that way at all she knows shes not that big.you just said the total opposite of what she really thinks. youre just jealous cause shes gorgeous.
i guess she is talking about how she was a idiot for being friends with demi and telling her all her secrets and now she regrets knowing that fake ass demi.
SUSTIN!
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shut up
he looks like 12
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Wow, it's called a JOKE. Learn to laugh.
That's sooo true! People think just cause I'm nice they can push me around!
ugh. i hate that ]:<
shes gorgeous and anyone who thinks otherwise is probably jeleous..........
That's sooo true! People think just cause I'm nice they can push me around!
ugh. i hate that ]:<
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I know what you mean, but I hate to the person who messes with me cause I get pretty mad.
wow shes really beautiful and has tons of natural beauty
AS said before her head is big enough to be used as one of the big balloon floats in the macys parade XD
ive never seen a picture of selena were she looks ugly..........beautiful gorgeous stunning fabulous
I know what you mean, but I hate to the person who messes with me cause I get pretty mad.
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When people mess with me i'm not directly mean but at first i feel sorry for them =p and then if they keep doing it and i get really mad i like blow up and get in full attack mode lol.
i have seen a lot of pictures of her where she looks ugly including this one
is really hard to know someone with all the computerized songs
aww cute justin and sel :D
her head does look kinda big in tht pic.....but shes still gorgeous so who cares
Or it's what the people that wrote the ENTIRE FUCKING ALBUM have gone through, you cunt.
no shes ugly............shes beautiful...and is pretty even without make up
she needs to tone down on the make-up her face is too pale/white for her body lmaooooo FAIL GOMEZ FAIL
BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!
I know what you mean, but I hate to the person who messes with me cause I get pretty mad.
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When people mess with me i'm not directly mean but at first i feel sorry for them =p and then if they keep doing it and i get really mad i like blow up and get in full attack mode lol.
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I don't really get mad at first because most of the time I just laugh it off cause it doesn't bother me. But when something starts to annoy/bother me that's when I 'attack' hah.
I wasn't dissing Selena.
I wasn't dissing you either, OceanUp.
I was trying to be funny (fail , I know)
You didn't have to flag me.
Sorry. :[
No more jokes.
ITS PROB PALE BC OF THE FLASH..........it still doesnt chage the fact thts she pretty
DinoGirl
Are you serious?! It's okay. I got banned last night ha.
Oceanup...get a life please and stop flagging people for stupid reasons.
wow shes very pretty
awwwwwh
Justin bieber.
he is adorable!
anyways selena is really pretty...i hate her hair
when it's long she it's like horsey..but she is really pretty with short hair!
anyways yeah seems like she's a really nice girl
she's pretty if your into big-nosed, big-headed girls with a stick for a body. she needs to eat a cheeseburger!!
butt
DinoGirl,
You got flagged?
I don't really get mad at first because most of the time I just laugh it off cause it doesn't bother me. But when something starts to annoy/bother me that's when I 'attack' hah.
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What really annoys me is when.. they act all nice and cool one day. then the next day they're like all rude.. and then the next they're like acting all nice again. lol
and she made the mistake to sing .
; (:
she has a pretty face and a nice body....and she knows how to dress it modestly
naiveness isn't a word.. -.-
anywayss.. heey! she ain't ugly! she's beautiful. xD andd hey! i have seen pictures of her that she looks ugly.. xD lol
hpaddictedx,
why did you get banned?
I've been flagged before but not for a full 3 hours.
I can't post from my computer , I'm on my iPhone just so I can apologize.
D:
What really annoys me is when.. they act all nice and cool one day. then the next day they're like all rude.. and then the next they're like acting all nice again. lol
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Yea I hate fake people. I try to stay away from them.
baby arm
fake ass disney bitch she will get outed for what she really is soon just like demi did
why did you get banned?
I've been flagged before but not for a full 3 hours.
I can't post from my computer , I'm on my iPhone just so I can apologize.
D:
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Omg you have NO reason to say sorry, you didn't do anything!! They are just being bullies.
I got banned cause I kept calling out their crap about Miley and Shanna.
ive seen pics were she looks ruff but not ugly
OU is out to get you girls XD
Oh gosh Justin Bieber really wants his album sales up that he has so many ways to get it up, like iTunes exclusive, 2 parts, AND golden ticket.
OU is out to get you girls XD
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Lmao they are cowards. Banning/flagging someone because of their OPINION. It's a damn gossip site.
Testing Testing.
Yea I hate fake people. I try to stay away from them.
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Yeah, me too... some how they always come backkk ._.
DinoGirl said:
Testing Testing.
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mic check 1-2 1-2
whistle song!
hpaddictedx said:
Omg you have NO reason to say sorry, you didn't do anything!! They are just being bullies.
I got banned cause I kept calling out their crap about Miley and Shanna.
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They unbanned me.
I didn't realize they watched our comments that harshly.
Kpurity said:
DinoGirl,
You got flagged?
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I'm good now.
But that was my second time being flagged.
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Jonas4Canada said:
Oh gosh Justin Bieber really wants his album sales up that he has so many ways to get it up, like iTunes exclusive, 2 parts, AND golden ticket.
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Golden Ticket? :D
Like Willy Wonka?
Anonymous said:
"BIG HEAD SELENA IS A WHORE!"
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Stupid fucking poster is stupid.
QUESTION!
Does anyone here own a pants suit?
;]
"BIG HEAD SELENA IS A WHORE!"
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA..... NO!
BIG HEAD SELENA IS A DISNEY WHORE!
DinoGirl said:
hpaddictedx said:
Omg you have NO reason to say sorry, you didn't do anything!! They are just being bullies.
I got banned cause I kept calling out their crap about Miley and Shanna.
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They unbanned me.
I didn't realize they watched our comments that harshly.
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I dont think they do they just have a word filter setup so if you use the right combination of words it bans/blocks you
Omg you have NO reason to say sorry, you didn't do anything!! They are just being bullies.
I got banned cause I kept calling out their crap about Miley and Shanna.
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They unbanned me.
I didn't realize they watched our comments that harshly.
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They probably look for spammers, but that was unfair.
Yea I hate fake people. I try to stay away from them.
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Yeah, me too... some how they always come backkk ._.
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Haha just ignore them. Btw I love your icon!! I miss rugrats.
Love this girl =)
For the people saying she's fake:
No. She isn't. Way better singer than Miley, & I'm a fan of both.
Selena is my #1 ROLE MODEL shes so beautiful :) ppl need to stop hating on her, she hasnt done anything to u.. so leave her alone :)
Haha just ignore them. Btw I love your icon!! I miss rugrats.
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I miss rugrats too... & thank youuu ;]
Jonas4Canada said:
Oh gosh Justin Bieber really wants his album sales up that he has so many ways to get it up, like iTunes exclusive, 2 parts, AND golden ticket.
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Golden Ticket? :D
Like Willy Wonka?
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LMAO ! DinoGirl , u are hilarious ! xD
willy wonka HAHAAH =]
Anonymous said:
Love this girl =)
For the people saying she's fake:
No. She isn't. Way better singer than Miley, & I'm a fan of both.
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No she isnt a better singer.. at all.
Miley = Bad Actress, Nasaly good singer.
Selena = Good Actress, Not horrible singer.. but not good singer... she's an okay singer.
Demi= Great singer, Alright Actress.
No she isnt a better singer.. at all.
Miley = Bad Actress, Nasally country good singer.
Selena = Good Actress, horrible singer..
Demi= Great singer, Horrible Actress.
No she isnt a better singer.. at all.
Miley = Bad Actress, Nasaly good singer.
Selena = Good Actress, Not horrible singer.. but not good singer... she's an okay singer.
Demi= Great singer, Alright Actress.
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They are all amazing singer and actors
hpaddictedx said:
They probably look for spammers, but that was unfair.
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Same for when they banned you.
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BTW, your icon is adorable.
They are all amazing singer and actors
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So you're here telling me Selena is an AMAZING singer?? and Miley is an AMAZING actress??
ughh.. NO.
this is what i'm talking about. selena gets the most fucking hate on oceanup for no damn reason at all. At least when Miley and Demi get hate people have reason behind it. People here just come here to call her names. It's like why are you so mean?
Selena should be punched in her throat so her vocal cords be damaged and she can't sing any more.
I don't get it. People say that Miley gets more hate, yet first comment there is on this post is a hate comment.
OceanUP, you gotta fix this place. No joke.
Anyway, love her :) <3
Aw Selena's so pretty,
and Justin's a little cutie :))
Who's on beautifulballad.wordpress.com? lol just wonderingg.
trainwreck said:
LMAO ! DinoGirl , u are hilarious ! xD
willy wonka HAHAAH =]
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Tank Yooz. :]
Oops, I promised no more jokes! :O
I post what i want as much asa i want and i never get flagged or banned weird XD
"Who's on beautifulballad.wordpress.com? lol just wonderingg." LOL looks like no one is one that site LOL
Anonymous said:
I post what i want as much asa i want and i never get flagged or banned weird XD
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Lucky! x]
I mean Christina Aguilera is an amazing singer, Selena is great and all but not an amazing singer.
and Meryl Streep is an amazing actress, Miley is great and all but not an amazing actress.
this is so random what does she have to do with justin???? and that picture looks photoshopped.
At least no one is saying selena is the next joan jett now that would be FUCKED UP!!
she is amazing & people need to realize that no one is perfect not even selena ILY selena i really do & your true fans will always be here for you
@DinoGirl I think OU is really out to get you.
where did you her that? i know selena said he was cutein one of her live chats but where did you her about his crush on her
u guys are obciously jealous...
DinoGirl... is that NICHOLAS? :O
Anonymous said:
@DinoGirl I think OU is really out to get you.
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I hope not.
Don't make me paranoid, now!
I love commenting on OceanUp, I'd be sad if I couldn't. Haha.
selena blah there are better everything out there compared to her.
Kpurity said:
DinoGirl... is that NICHOLAS? :O
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In my icon? Yessssss.
@DinoGirl
Watch out OU is behind you!
they are under your bed!
they are the monkey in your closet!
i was listenin to a demi interview and someone told her about it i cant remember what video though.
hpaddictedx
hey, do i know you from anythingdisney?
DinoGirl... is that NICHOLAS? :O
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In my icon? Yessssss.
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I had never seen that picture..
When was that?
i dont know do you ?
Anonymous said:
@DinoGirl
Watch out OU is behind you!
they are under your bed!
they are the monkey in your closet!
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http://i36.tinypic.com/2jes1sy.jpg
http://i36.tinypic.com/2jes1sy.jpg
LOL XD
She is so pretty.
Love her
@DinoGirl whatd you do to get banned?
Anonymous said:
BIG HEAD SELENA IS A WHORE!
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Selena has NOT done one thing to warrant a comment like that! There is nothing whoreish about Selena. Get over yourself you fool.
Kpurity said:
I had never seen that picture..
When was that?
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I have no idea. :[
I randomly found this picture, I even tried looking for what concert this was from after saving the picture, but couldn't find it.
It's recent, though.
BIG HEAD SELENA IS A WHORE BECAUSE SHE STOLE NICK FROM MILEY!
BIG HEAD SELENA IS A WHORE BECAUSE SHE STOLE NICK FROM MILEY!
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stfu bitch. you're just a troll who's trying to start some shit
I had never seen that picture..
When was that?
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I have no idea. :[
I randomly found this picture, I even tried looking for what concert this was from after saving the picture, but couldn't find it.
It's recent, though.
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Oh. I thought he was swimming. Hahaha.. nevermind.
Aw Selena's so pretty,
and Justin's a little cutie :))
Who's on beautifulballad.wordpress.com? lol just wonderingg.
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Jamie!!! :)
dont need to start something thats already happening so get on your knees and suck my balls
Wow, aren't you all grown up & brave...
*claps*
do the world a favour, get a dictionary & look up the word whore, because you obviously know naff all about the definition you childish little twirp.
Selena is beautiful, talented, kind hearted & more sucessful than you'll ever be with an attitude towards people like you do. She has multiple reasons to be proud of herself... where as the way you come off, you more than likely have zero.
You know the image I got in my head when I read your comment?! It was of a 4 year old in a playground pointing at another little kid... trying to point score with insults they don't even KNOW the meaning of... then I thought about it, and saying that would be an insult to a four year olds intelligence.
Basically my conclusion is you're just full of you're own insecurities, either that or just another idiotic bully. GET LOST.
SELENA IS A WHORE BECAUSE SHE STOLE NICK FROM MILEY!
hpaddictedx
hey, do i know you from anythingdisney?
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Lmao. You caught me.
ok i got for selena...
Selena is a worthless cunt.
They probably look for spammers, but that was unfair.
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Same for when they banned you.
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BTW, your icon is adorable.
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They just can't handle the TRUTH ha.
I think you and I are the ones who switch our icons the most.
ok i got for selena...
Selena is a worthless cunt.
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Wow, you're so much more worthy because you think you're so cool insulting someone you don't even know. (: -gives an award-
No actually you would fit under the title "worthless cunt", because that's exactly what you are. Thanks for contributing nothing better of your time like the idiot that you are.
I though i saw a bobblehead of selena in hot topic but then i looked again and it was just the real selena. XD
oh! what a you know selena taking pictures with another big and up coming star.
She so fucking obvios always trying to feed from other people fame.
No actually I would fit under the title "worthless cunt", because that's exactly what I am. Thank me for contributing nothing better like the idiot that I am.
OK i am going back to my true love Miley.
I think you're completely wrong.
she was SHOCKED to be number 1 on radio disney
she doesn't think she's hot shit at all
You do that and don't ever come back. Continue stealing other people's usernames because that just makes you look even more pathetic.
justin bieber doesn't have a crush on her.
he has a hge crush on taylor swift on the other hand. he is like obsessed with her. :).
why is he hanging out with selena? get away from her. she is stupid, justin.
You do that and I won't ever come back. I will continue stealing other people's usernames because that just makes me look even more pathetic.
actually it's naivety NOT naiveness
but whatever i guess it doesn't matter
tough fucking shit for you adam no one not even you can tell you from the troll you claim if there is even one.
i was just saying what i heard when demi was on a radio show selenas okay though.
i like bananas in pajamas.
but selena loves her pickles.
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